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Sunday, April 26th 2009

4:15 PM

What If?

What If….?

What if …
    Ben Franklin didn’t fly his famous kite because it was raining?

    Orville and Wilbur Wright didn’t fly at Kitty Hawk for fear of crashing?

    Henry Ford thought the automobile was a killing machine and stopped working on it?

    NASA and the first astronauts refused to develop space travel for fear     of disaster?

    Any of the great inventors put aside their ambitions because of Fear?

Where would we be today?

What if….

    Researchers stopped searching?

    Teachers stopped teaching?

    Students stopped learning?

    All soldiers stopped fighting?

    Singers stopped singing and musicians stopped playing?

    All praying stopped?

    Stars stopped shining?

    Men of all faiths, beliefs and nationalities put aside their differences and instead focused on their commonalities?

    We all found God/Goddess within us?

What if…….?

What a different, different world this would be.

Blessed Be!





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Thursday, April 16th 2009

8:17 AM

1, 2, 3 Strikes But You Are Never Out!

Well, OK, this is a little late, but I got side-tracked by the Catholic-Reiki topic (See previous blog entry). Any way, Spring is here and with it comes HOPE! Hope that new beginnings bring. This hope is symbolic in the seeds we planted at Ostara.

This hope actually begins to grow each fall for many of us sports (baseball in particular) fans. In the Greater Cleveland area, where I lived most of my life, the phrases “Maybe next year” or “Wait until next year” became a tradition on their own. Always clinging to that hope. That hope builds through the Fall and Winter, climaxing in Spring with the end of Spring training and the celebration of Opening Day. For on Opening Day, everybody is in first place.

Side Note: They never sold bottles of beer at Cleveland’s stadiums. They couldn’t, they always lost the opener. Ha! Ha! Get it? Bottle…Opener…. Ok then…

As I was saying, when you think about it, life can be like baseball. When he year (season) ends, you take some time to reflect. What things went right? What went wrong? What things do you want to keep?(Resign players). What do you want to rid yourself of? (Release players) How can you improve for the new year? (Make a trade) Make plans and prepare for the new year. (Off-season and Spring training) Come the new year, you get to display the new you. (New team, stadium improvement) The best part is, if you make an error on opening day (or any other day really) the next day brings another opportunity. As Yogi said, “It ain‘t over ‘til it’s over.” Even after making 3 outs, a new beginning awaits or another game if those outs occurred in the 9th inning.

Each day, each year, brings new beginnings to us. Once we make those 3 outs in the 9th, we come back for another time, another game, another season. We are given life anew. Maybe not as a Cleveland Indian or Boston Red Sox, but life will renew in some form for all of us, either wearing a familiar or new uniform.

So, let’s PLAY BALL!! Live LIFE!

GOOOO TRIBE! (Sorry, I couldn’t help it!)

Blessed Be!

 

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Thursday, April 9th 2009

6:28 AM

The Sins of Reiki (Or How to Try and Make a Good Thing Look Bad)

The Committee on Doctrine of the United States Conference of Bishops has released is “Guidelines For Evaluating Reiki As An Alternative Therapy”. The guidelines are too lengthily to include here, but can be, and should be, viewed at http://www.usccb.org/dpp/doctrine.htm.

As a Reiki Master, my view on their finding is bias, but, hey, this is my blog, my avenue to vent. So....

The first point I question in their guidelines, is their definition of natural healing. Apparently, the Church considers all medicinal, so-called standard medical procedures, as natural. By doing so, they can state they support natural healing and cite the number of Catholic hospitals to support their claim. Now, if they would have simply stated that prayer is a form of natural healing they would have presented some credibility. But no, prayer, according to them, is in another class called super natural. (?) It seems to me then, that all the wonders of the Universe are super natural, for indeed, they are, as all things can be traced back through synchronicity to Deity.

The “Guidelines” state that Reiki lacks any scientific credibility and has not been accepted by scientific and medical communities as an effective therapy. Research says otherwise. I refer to studies that include Kirlian photo images of auras before and after a Reiki treatment. Numerous other studies have been conducted and a growing number of hospitals incorporate Reiki into their treatment plans, including having staff trained as Reiki practitioners. Some medical insurances will even cover Reiki treatments.

The only way to “Divine Healing” is through prayer? Really? Does that prayer need to be in the form of “Our Father who art….” or “Hail Mary, full…”? But wait, even if you include those prayers with Reiki, as some do invoke a Deity, including God or Christ, during a treatment, that “does not affect the essential nature of Reiki” that makes it unacceptable. That is because the Bishops deny the existence of Universal Life Energy, the core of the Reiki concept. Once again, I wonder about the nature and extent of their research regarding this.

A point I find ironic is that the Late Pope John Paul not only gave blessing to priests and nuns who trained in Reiki (some reaching Master level) but the Pope, suffering with Parkinson’s Disease late in his life, reportedly received Reiki regularly. Further irony is to have a religion based on a hands-on healer (Christ) oppose it.

Let the Catholics condemn me to their Hell for I will not cease nor apologize for being a Reiki Master and advocate. I will place my destiny in my own hands as I believe in a non-judgmental Deity that will not punish for an act of kindness toward another. To my Catholic blog readers, I implore you to question your church’s Bishops. Demand that they get all the facts on any issue before leading others down any path. More importantly, ,look inside yourself. Get the facts. What seems right to you? Do you really want to deny anybody or animal pain relief, deny ease of mind, deny a relief from stress? While it is true, you may not fully understand how or why it works, does not knowing how your TV, computer or car work stop you from using them?

Let common sense prevail and if it harms none, do as ye will.

Blessed Be!

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Friday, April 3rd 2009

6:57 AM

Law of Physics

The Law of Physics states that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Easily understood, but what form or nature does that reaction take? Who decides? When it comes to our interactions with others (and ourselves), we decide, and there are many options to choose from. They include a knee-jerk, emotional response, or a calm, logic-driven, mental response, remembering that everything happens for a reason. What reaction is beneficial to you, to others?

When facing turmoil, real or perceived, try to remain calm, relaxed and evaluate the situation. What are your options and what are the possible outcomes of those actions? Keeping in mind that everything happens for a good reason and without recent turmoil there would be no impetus to focus on a better life.

We can’t control the words or actions of others, but we can control our reaction to them. Make the reaction decision based on the premise that it is an opportunity to recognize the presence of love and peace where you thought it was void. Use the situation as a learning experience to better yourself. Do not pass on the opportunity to acknowledge a life lesson. When the situation isn’t measuring up to what you want, first, make a decision about what you would rather have. Then, plan, and put it into action, await in eager anticipation as it is brought to you.

Situations are not tests,  but rather opportunities, opportunities to realize and experience a positive life lesson.

Make your equal and opposite reaction an intelligent mental choice and an opportunity realized. The choice is yours.

Blessed Be!

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Thursday, March 26th 2009

6:43 AM

The ‘M’ Word in Maine (And Elsewhere)

As I begin my preparations to officiate a same-sex hand fasting, scheduled for June, I figure it’s time to enter the same-sex marriage fray.  It’s an argument that should not exist, plain and simple, outside of religion. I fail to understand how or why the government, state and/or federal, feels compelled to dictate its religious beliefs and interpretations into law, forcing everyone to adhere to them. 

I’d have thought by now that after the women’s suffrage movement, civil and women’s rights advancements that the same-sex debate would be a no-brainer.

The decision to allow same-sex marriages belongs in the church, each individual one. I have yet to hear an argument against it that does not use the Bible as its basis or have the critic argue as if they are God’s spokesperson, a la Moses, telling us God’s position.

My Bible doesn’t ban same-sex anything (Oh, wait! I don’t have a Bible). My beliefs follow one dictum: “An’ ye harm none, do what ye will”. As far as I can see, same-sex marriages harm none, the same as heterosexual marriages.

I have also heard the accompanying complaint that, by allowing same-sex marriages, we would be minimizing the sanctity of the marriage institution and further destroy the family structure. Heterosexual marriages have taken care of that by themselves already. If a married couple has to deny others their rights in order to feel safe and secure in their marriage, perhaps they should look closely at their own marriage and family. After all, isn’t the current divorce rate around 50%? They should not feel threatened by nor reliant upon others for their own happy marriage. 

Why should one’s sexual preference delegate them to 2nd-class citizens? Why should one group be singled out for differential treatment? Why should one’s religious belief be cast upon all others ala Sharia (Muslim law).

The government, state and federal, should get out of the marriage business and leave that tothe various religions. Call it civil unions or whatever term you like,  just treat everyone alike, with the same rights. If  XYZ Church does not believe in same-sex marriage, the XYZ Church should have the right to not perform or sanctify the marriage, but leave the couple the option of  going to a church that does or of obtaining a non-church equivalent civil union. Maybe we should revert back to the olden times before churches got greedy and successfully tried to extend their control over more areas of society.  In those days, as I understand it, a couple had to obtain a civil union, and then, if they chose, got married in a ceremony according to their religious beliefs. I’m not advocating that, but the idea, if presented, might be a way of illustrating the absurdity of it all.

We are all one, under one Universe, from one Deity. Let’s start acting like it!

Blessed Be!

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Friday, March 20th 2009

6:59 AM

Just the Usual Miracles


Taking in the small joys of each day expands our feeling of being connected with this world and beyond. That simple act is often extremely difficult. We often grow indifferent to those “small” miracles since they continuously happen, second-to second, and are not limited to one small corner of our world. Look out your backyard,  look in the mirror. Miracles abound! We come to expect then and take them for granted.

It is, or should be, these every day aspects that bring us the most joy. We are more apt to appreciate and full heartily grasp the experience of living if we take the time and effort to acknowledge them. It takes little time, little effort to acknowledge these wonders, but the rewards are immeasurable. Look for the beauty, small acts of kindness and laughter and what may,  at first, seem like the ordinary daily happenings, become miraculous events….birds fly, the sun shines, human life is created and sustained….Look at the details. Ask yourself how,  why, when did this all start? 

When you awake, set the intention to notice more joy in the world. You will find it, small and big, and it will fill your life in multi-dimensions. The sound of laughter, birds singing, water falling, ocean surf crashing,  and yes, even the dog barking, are all delightful miracles happening daily in our world.

You will find your day and your life filled with more joy when you make a practice of keeping your eyes, ears and all your senses open and cognizant of the wonders around you. It’s one of the best natural remedies around and definitely the least expensive. Start today and with each passing day you will find these miracles abound, bringing you a deeper appreciation for everything the Universe has given our lives. 

Smile, for you, too, are a miracle!

Blessed Be!

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Friday, March 13th 2009

9:15 PM

My Rocco Encounter

It was a typical Monday, the back-to-work day. I made my lunch and harnessed/leashed Shadow, our 120 pound Akita, for his jaunt outside to take care of business before we left for work. As we walked out the door and toward the steps, my eyes caught something toward the bottom of the steps. A raccoon was making its way up those same steps toward us. He froze as soon as he saw us. I yelled something I’m sure he understood in racoonese, like “Hey!” He turned and ran under the car parked in the driveway (Yes, I know… park in the driveway, drive in the parkway… Thank you George Carlin). I waited and he did not appear, so I deemed it safe to proceed down the steps, assuming he ran off in another direction.

Shadow and I made it to the bottom of the steps and to the street where Shadow waters the pavement daily. On the way back, Shadow finally picked up the scent of the raccoon, trying to make his way under the car where he was last known to be. Up to that point, he displayed no awareness of the ‘coon. We started up the steps, leash in one of my hands and snow shovel in the other (to be returned to its proper place on the landing) and stopped about 2 steps up upon seeing our intruder again. This time he was laying/sitting on a top step, oblivious to us. My patented “HEY!” failed to rouse him. I put the shovel down, picked up some snow and tossed it at him He raised his head, gave us a bored look and laid back down. This sequence repeated three or four times before he got up and scurried up to the landing and out of sight. Whew! So back up the steps we went, dog leash in one hand, snow shovel in the other,

It was Getting close to the time to leave for work, so I was relieved. The coon’s lethargic behavior plus his being out during the day had me concerned about his health, rabies, etc. Anyway, up the steps we went when Whoa! Up on the landing, clinging to a rail, he was waiting for us. This time, Shadow definitely saw him. They went nose-to-nose. When he is in that mode, Shadow is too strong to control with one hand, but I was trying to pull him back. The snarling started. Having planned well in advance for such a thing, (ha ha!), I held the snow shovel between them. With a few more strong tugs on the leash, I got Shadow to follow me back down the steps to safety. Now what? “Hello, I can’t make it into work today because a raccoon is holding me hostage!” I don’t think that is covered in the employee manual. I figured my wife, Brenda, would eventually notice me MIA. After what seemed like an eternity, I saw her looking out the window and I motioned for her to go to the deck on the other side of the house. I yelled to her what was happening and advised her to get a broom to try and shush it away. She did just that, well, sort of. She came out the door, broom in hand, and immediately started sweet-talking the antagonist. Not what I had in mind. He wasn‘t going anywhere, clinging to the rail. At least now I had a buffer to get Shadow (and myself) inside. We hurried past as Brenda protected us with her broom and cutesy talk. Next challenge, we had to get back out to go to work. With all of us inside, except Rocco (the now-named raccoon), we could see him still clinging to the rail as we looked out the window. The snarling had stopped. We decided to make a run for it and hurried past the cling-on Rocco. He didn’t budge, thankfully.

We were pleasantly surprised upon coming home from work to not find the garbage can and its contents strewn all over the place. Rocco was gone as well.

Life in the big city holds many little surprises! Just another day in the life….. Some suggested he only came by to visit his cousin, Caribou Freddie (the ferret) ha ha! Others, (who? Me?) insist it was my animal magnetism!!! Either way, he brought some excitement to our little world in Caribou.

Blessed Be!

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Tuesday, March 10th 2009

8:03 AM

Perspective Mountain

A couple of weeks ago, I talked about the mountains and valleys of life, how we find both during our life journey, and that we should allow ourselves to open our arms to not only accept help when we are in the valley, but to also extend them up in an offer of help to others when we find ourselves atop the mountain in an effort to assist in raising them up.

What is it about mountains that cause us to use them so often when referring to life? Why has man always sought to scale them?

Mountains symbolize vision, the ability to rise above the lowlands and see beyond our immediate vicinity. Mountains, even from a distance, remind us of how small we are in the grand scheme of things. Important, yes, but a small part in the big picture.

Mountains allow us perspective and force us to look at things comparatively. Looking up at a majestic mountain we feel miniscule, but believe that if we accept the challenge to climb it, we will be a better person for doing so.

Many individuals have climbed mountains in order to connect with a  higher source  of understanding and many have come back down feeling stronger and wiser. Mikao Usui, of Usui Reiki fame, is an example of that. Yes, climbing a mountain does take skill, fortitude, patience, planning, inner and outer strength, and I’m sure many other attributes that an actual mountain climber like myself is not aware of. The climb to the top of the real mountain, just like life’s mountain, is not easy, but once we reach the pinnacle, Voila!!

From the top of the mountain we are able to witness life from a new, different perspective. Cities and masses of people seem little and minute when observed from such a vantage point and big problems now look insignificant. But the only thing that has really changed is one’s vantage point, one’s perspective. They are the same people, same you, same cities, same mountain - only now the vantage point is from above.

Whether we are at the mountain top or the valley in life, our perspective is easily tainted accordingly. The challenge to us all is to view the world with the proper perspective wherever we are on the mountain and to not forget the journey up and the others at its starting point in the valley, just one wrong step below. Life is what we make it and how we look at it.

Perspective: According to a local citizen, the best place to view a sunset is the parking lot at Save-A-Lot. It’s all in one’s perspective. How do you see the world? Where is your favorite place to view a sunset? Perspective Mountain?

Blessed Be!


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Thursday, March 5th 2009

9:11 AM

A Powerful Word

Forgive. To forgive is to pardon. To pardon is to let it go. To forgive, you must truly let it go. You are not just letting go of the circumstances or wrongs, you are releasing it all. It never happened once. It is forgiven. “True forgiveness does not even remember the injury.” (The Two Seekers)

Forgiveness is a gift that you give to yourself and to others. Forgive yourself. As stated by Robert Watts Jr. in “People Are Never the Problem,” to fully enjoy our potential and to increase the potential in others, we must learn to forgive ourselves and our fellow man. When we forgive others , we are forgiven for the things we do wrong. Forgiveness is the power to start over and try again. Forgiveness is the power to do better next time. Give yourself that chance.

To others, forgiveness is a gift because you are letting the other person take the “wrong” and are letting them release any fear or retribution. They can live in without hiding around a corner in fear. Fear causes many actions, anger and violence as well as illness and depression. The forgiven now feels like they can truly change because you have let go of the idea that they are bad. You release them from negative self-worth. You let them know that there is a clean slate and they alone have the choice to change or not.

Forgiveness can be one of the greatest acts of kindness you can commit. Let go of the past and not only will you grant peace, you will achieve peace.

Forgiveness does not mean you shouldn’t file the information as if it were a lesson. That is what it should be - a lesson for all concerned. Use it to protect yourself and be sure it is not something that will hurt you again or destroy anything you have worked for. If it happens again, you are in a position to say that the person is noteworthy of trust and should not be part of your life. They lack respect and you cannot put yourself in that situation to be misled again. That person can be forgiven, even again, but you can also ask them to move on in their own life if the wrong is bad enough. Only you can determine if and when that point is reached. It is also a point when you need to ask yourself if you contributed in any way in making certain things happen or led the person to think wrongly. There is always cause and effect and there could be something that leads them to repeat their mistakes. You do not have to forget, just let go of the emotion attached to you don’t become destructive, for if we do not practice forgiveness frequently, it can destroy us from the inside out and can also destroy those we love who are innocent bystanders.

Life is a wonderful roller coaster, full of ups and downs, filled with excitement and fear. We cannot and should not blame those who journeyed along with us, even if they pushed us off course. We have to find the lesson in where we are at the time and be thankful for being led to a place where we were able to experience it. Good or bad, we had an experience. If it was bad, be thankful for making it through and be thankful by forgiving them and yourself.

There is no need to wait to be asked for forgiveness, for at times the other person may not even realize they have offended you. Is there someone you need to forgive? Yourself? Today is a good day.

Forgive.

Blessed Be!

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Thursday, February 26th 2009

10:16 PM

The Up Side of Down Times

When we experience difficult circumstances and situations, we develop a new perspective on life. Our priorities change and things that were once very important to us no longer hold the same level of importance and vice versa.

Those types of experiences also allow us to identify with the sufferings of others. They lead us form a camaraderie with others
who have been through similar trials. A bond develops, allowing them to acknowledge to each other what they have been through without actually speaking of it. War vets, terrorism survivors, rape victims, transplant patients, cancer survivors, Holocaust survivors are all examples of this happening. They know how these trials and lessons affected others. These experiences also allow us to better perceive the life trials of others, regardless of their nature.

In the midst of these experiences, we seldom see the positives nor appreciate the opportunity to do so. Valleys are difficult to admire and appreciate while we are in them. However, once we climb out of the valley, we can look back and admire the terrain we passed through. We then are amazed that we prevailed and admire that those troubled times yielded more positives than ever thought possible. The experience, in hindsight, becomes a positive one and the pain and sorrow produced is put aside, replaced by the positive lessons learned.

These experiences also allow us to look at what others are going through with empathy, compassion and understanding, allowing us to comfort and aid them as fellow human beings, children of the same Universe. When you are in the valley of life, open your arms and accept assistance from those who have been there themselves. When you are atop the mountain, open your arms and reach down to help ease the trek of those making their way up. For every mountaintop, there is a valley and for every valley, there is a mountaintop. The journey over both is “Life” and all the children of the Universe, you and me, have traveled and continue to do so.

Blessed Be!
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